Why is life so predictable

If you're like most of us, you're a creature of patterns and many of them are not desirable ones. People see you coming and know how you'll react to what they have to say. Your communication status quo has you hooked. And you may not even know it.

Sure, you're smart. But are you aware of how you present your thoughts? Do you have a repertoire of responses to difficult situations and do you keep adding to it? If not, then it's likely that people who knew you years ago could meet you again today and accurately predict how you'd respond to a set of hypothetical situations.

If this is indeed that case, your communication skills stagnated long ago. Life may seem too hectic to be observing how others around you make things happen, to try new ways of introducing ideas or comebacks , to practice and then to add the useful ones to your set while discarding those that have outlived their utility.

And yet that's exactly what separates people who convey their thoughts effectively from those who do not. It separates, too, those who are hired to do interesting jobs from others who languish in the same one for years. I did an interview this week that you might find interesting. But, if you don't have time to listen, here are a few highlights to make tomorrow a different day than yesterday and today. First, if you take no control over your communication, there is a chance that things will go wrong.

Regain your zest for life with these five steps. Estimated reading time: 6 minutes. As an excitement junkie, I wanted lots of things to be happening around me and a full schedule. The monotony and predictability of his life seemed like a nightmare to me!

It was a coping mechanism that I used to protect myself from facing the reality of my life. Our celebrity fascination gives us the illusion that happiness is a result of being busy and constantly on the move. We fill our social media pages with images and updates that make our life more eventful than they actually are. Yet deep down, many of us are bored. This trend is reflected in the younger generations of today. According to a survey published, two thirds of millennials are bored with their life, twenty-seven percent are bored with TV, and one in six is fed up with social media.

This is an epidemic that shows the extent to which their interest in living has dwindled and how desensitized the youngsters of today have become to the wonder and beauty in the world. Allowing ourselves to continue living in a state of apathy is the equivalent of giving ourselves a death sentence, albeit a slow one, where our spirit gradually deteriorates. These people mistakenly believe that the need a substance to fill the void when all they have to do is recapture their youth.

Tatum explains the study of human behavior as the research and practical application of how individuals interact and work with one another, then how groups operate. Strongly rooted in psychology and sociology, human behavior studies give us an academic understanding of motivations, productivity and how teams work. In turn, these insights can help make workplaces or any group setting more productive.

In Dr. Studies in organizational psychology have given insights into what motivates people in groups. When managers can resist their own notions and embrace the research, human behavior studies can be put to great use in the workplace. If you are interested in pursuing a career related to human behavior, National University offers online degrees in Human Behavior, Organizational Behavior, and Performance Psychology.

The Master of Arts in Human Behavior is designed for students to acquire greater knowledge of the behavioral sciences and theories of human behavior. Hopefully no police are reading this and coming to my house, I made no effort to hide myself posting this. Anyway, I have these suicidal thoughts constantly in my head. Deep down, I want friends in a way, but mainly just for my entertainment. Right now I just scam people online and code cheats in video games for fun. No more no less. Besides I never try in school or do anything for it at home.

I just cheat or do it in other classes. So much so, I considered what the complications of killing the principal would be. Then go get some stupid job and die. Sometimes, I just want to run away and go do what I want. Pack a tent and clothes, then convert all the money from online to cash that I have. Then go and do what I want for a week or two. I came here because I was scared to tell anyone the truth.

So I want to hear whats wrong with me. Secondly, you need to really zone out and observe your thoughts. Think about what you really want? Who or what is stopping you from doing the things that you want to do?

Remember, that no one has to live a certain way because they are expected to. You can literally live your life any way you want. As cheesy as it sounds, the possibilities are endless. I have learned that in order to stop focusing on my misery is to focus on helping others.

With your case, you love your dog. If you want to shift things in your life then I suggest trying something different in order to make things different for yourself. Try volunteering at an animal shelter. So you want to tell the truth. That is a good thing. I like truth. If you are willing, we can see more and more of the truth.