What is a newborns routine

What are your thoughts as to why they only seem to stir around from 12 to 4 every night? Otherwise, during the day they sleep and eat like champs. Wondering if I should feed them more frequently to.

Thanks for any advice :. Hi Whitney! Are they not gassy during the day? Like, do you feed them laying down and think that could contribute to gas? Ha, so many questions! Hello- first time mom here and our little one has reflux and terrible painful gas. I try the white noise, dark room, swaddled, but she takes a good hour to get drowsy even! We are on reflux medicine and are trying things to help with her tummy troubles, but we are really struggling.

Michelle, unfortunately reflux is one of those things that make it difficult for little ones to get comfortable :. Are you propping her up while feeding, heavy burping, etc. I usually feed my little ones to sleep at that bedtime feed. Hello, I am a first time mom with a 5 week old and I know he is not getting enough naps. I am happy I found this schedule and will be trying this out to see if it helps. I think the extra sleep will help. What is a dream feed and do you wake them for that?

I always wake them up for a dream feed! Also during the day, put the baby to bed much sooner than you think you should.

Hey, I just found your blog and this article and it comes at a great time as I have a 7 week old daughter that I am trying to get on some what of a schedule or routine. Anyways, I have a question about the dream feed. I cannot get my daughter to latch during this time, she is just too fast asleep. Even if I did do that, then once she is up and feeding well it would be hard to swaddle her again after the feed without her being jostled awake again. Any thoughts?

Kim, babies are notorious for not wanting to wake for this feed. I just came across your blog. The only problem i have is that after feeding him, he seems sleepy, but will not go down for naps or only nap or short periods. I hope over time i can change this.

Abotu how long is he awake from when he wakes up to feed and you put him down? Meghan, some babies take 45 minute naps often and struggle to transition on their own. Does he go to sleep by himself at the beginning of the nap? Also, will he take the paci? Had some problems with breastfeeding in the beginning, baby not gaining weight and had to supplement with formula, which I still do.

Anyway, I think things just take longer. Do you believe if a do a routine with longer periods will work? What would you suggest? How do you usually put babies down for a nap rocking, etc? Thank you! Hi Carol, yes you can surely go longer than 30 minutes. OH and a best friend of mine is moving to Hungary in a few months :. Feeding can take more or less than 30 min, depending how long she stays on the breast she still breastfeeds some times! And how fast she drinks the bottle. Sometimes she falls asleep while feeding, I think she is done, but she wakes up shortly after and drinks more.

She usually played by herself on the playing mat or bassinet, but now just seems bored of everything and wants to be held most of the time. But she is sleeping a good amount of hours during the night, which is good. I dreamfeed her at around 10 pm she is already sleeping for hours and she usually goes until 6 am or a little less.

She will either wake up too soon or not go to sleep at all. Anyway, Hungary is a very nice country to live! Language is pretty hard, but a lot of people speak English in Budapest. Not in the small villages, though. We are here as missionaries since ! Carol, one of my dearest friends is moving to Budapest from the UK to be missionaries in Central Europe : How awesome! I think you just do the best you can and sometimes a routine works better than a schedule. How awesome!

Do you know which mission board they work with? They are very welcoming to people and have lots of missionaries as members! I HAVE to send her the info of those churches. Can you send me an email if you get this comment at amotherfarfromhome gmail. My husband and I have really been trying to follow this schedule with our 12 day old baby girl and had a few questions. Does this schedule help them sleep better at night? Would it completely screw up this schedule if we fed her around instead of ?

Again, Thank you so much!! Also, what is your nighttime schedule like? Do you set an alarm to feed them or do you wait until they wake up to feed them? I cluster feed at night too.

That schedule helps them get what they need during the day! Hello Rachel, My 6 week old will not fall asleep after his 7pm feeding. Also, he wakes up in the middle of the night because his diaper is too wet. After I change him, he is too awake now and hard to put to sleep. I just keep him near me or on the bed, give him the paci, or try to keep him a bit comfy. It passes quickly, I wonder if yours has a witching hour too?

I am due w baby 2 in October and I plan on being a lot more prepared this time round. I feel so empowered reading through your info and preparing where I can for what seems to be such a whirlwind and chaos of a situation. I have 2 questions though, my girl will be just 2 when her brother arrives and I am a stay at home mom and we love our playgroups and park dates during the day.

I am very worried about being tied to the house all day as am afraid this will be horrible for my daughter…. Any tips on surviving that without jeopardizing my little boy becoming a stellar sleeper?

Thank you so much your routine samples!! I have referred to them SO much over the last 3 months. I do have a question. I gave it some time to let him adjust to that. However, 2 weeks later, he still wakes up at 2 or 4am for an extra feeding. Kenya, I love this question. I personally add in another feed during the day if the baby starts waking more at night. She eats well very 2 hours and wakes every 3 hours to feed during the night.

She also wakes after putting her down to sleep. Nina, do you think she has reflux? I do keep her elevated an burped after feedings. I put her upright against my chest after a feed to burp her and he usually falls asleep then if not while feeding. Once she is asleep after a feeding, I try to put her down appx 30 mins after the start of a feed. She will last about 15 mins down then starts to wake again. Otherwise she gets fussy and ends up cluster feeding until about am.

All this difficulty happens in the evening to bedtime. Mornings and afternoons she sleeps well and can sometimes be put down to sleep. Also, do you nurse? I mean this is what happens here during that time occasionally. And i just spoke with her doc and yes she has reflux. Thank you so much for your insight! So happy I found your blog! I have a 7 week old and currently struggling on finding a balance with her feeding and sleep schedule.

I am going back to work in a month! What do you suggest for nap times? She takes really short naps like 30 mins or so never exceeding an hour or 2 like in the beginning when she was a newborn. Do you suggest they are kept away for nap time like in a dark room with white noise? Or kept in the family room area where adult supervision is or the tv is on? I normally always put the baby to nap and bed in a dimmed room.

If you put on white noise then you can go in and out to check if necessary. Hope that helps :. In your newborn schedule post, I thought you said to have wake time after each feed until bedtime. Do you feed your newborns and lay them down for a nap right away or do you try to have wake time in between?

Hope that helps. Hi Rachel, Your website and sample schedules are great! I have a quick question for you, I have a 3 week old and she is gaining weight and have a good amount of diaper output. She sleeps in 3. Should I let her do this or make her do full feedings? She seems to sleep the same amount either way… Karrie. I have started your programme and sleep schedule and I am just wondering what the best thing to do is if my 2 week old goes down at the allocated time during the day but wakes earlier that when she is supposed to because she is hungry?

If she wakes up hungry feed her! If baby wkaes up and is not fussy or crying then I may wait to feed until normal routine time, but I always feed if baby is hungry.

Thank you so much! I have an almost 4week old and realized we had no idea what to do with her during the day!! We were letting her get so overtired and it started to ruin our nights and days. This has been so helpful. Also, should I change the diaper before the dream feed? Oh yes I change at every feed probably for that age. Oh congratulations on your little one :. Hi, this is helpful! I have a 4 week old and we are just starting to try having a flexible schedule.

I have one question. If you put the baby down swaddled and in her bed for all daytime naps, when can we fit in skin to skin and cuddle time? I usually swaddle and play and cuddle whiel feeding and then shortly after. Oh the baby snuggles :. Looking at this schedule, do you feed them when getting ready for bed, or is 6pm the last time before the dream feed?

Without looking at the exact routine, it may be at 6pm, 8pm, or ish pm, or even 5 7 and I always feed immediately before putting down to bed. Your site is so helpful! It would have saved me so much stress to find it two weeks ago! I have a 4 week old and I am attempting to schedule him per your recommended schedule.

We feed, have activity time and then rock to attempt to get him drowsy. He appears drowsy until I lay him down. For the most part he is content to sit there without crying, but can sit there for over an hour without falling asleep. Any tips would be greatly appreciated!!

Leslie, sometimes babies have this passive awake time where they are drifting into sleep and they stare off into space and then fall asleep gently. Mine did this and soon they learned to fall asleep a lot faster. My daughter is almost 5 weeks old. I am trying your newborn routine schedule. She did great yesterday with her day time naps and going down drowsy. This morning she basically missed her amam nap.

I got her down and realized it was 10am already. Just move forward to next steps of feed, diaper change, play and nap again? Vanessa, if we get way off routine then I just try to keep the normal spaces of time, not necessarily the actual clock time.

So if we have a few minutes off here and there then I just keep the normal one if I can :. Thank you so much for this post! How would you handle this? Put them in their crib awake and let him settle himself down until he sleeps or hold him until he starts to doze off? Thanks so much! HI thank you so much for your great advice! My little guy is 8. He is 13lbs and everything Ive read says he should be sleeping longer periods of time at night. Do you agree?

I try to give him the pacifier and see if he will sleep longer but he seems to wake up every 10 minutes or so after putting himself back to sleep with the pacifier. Eventually I give up and feed him. Also the naps seem so sporadic, one day he will do great the next I spend hours trying to get him to nap.

I tried for multiple days in a row to get him to nap in his crib without success. I feel like I am nowhere near a routine and I would really like one for him and me. Thanks for any advice! Molly, I really think it just depends. Have you done the free sleep course? I was just wondering about the dark room when napping — you mentioned in another article to keep it bright during the day to not confuse the baby with night sleeping, but here you say to keep the room dark during the day as well?

Am I doing something wrong? We are having trouble with laying down our 9 week old drowsy but awake. We try to follow a wind down routine and try to start as soon as he shows tired cues. But he never does. So we picky him up to start all over. He will then get over tired and really hard to get back to sleep. We will spend the whole nap time trying to get him to go to sleep or stay asleep.

How do we overcome this obstacle and get on a routine without it spiraling out of control every day?? Leslie, how long do you give him to get to sleep? Sometimes it takes 10 or 15 minutes as they learn to get to sleep themselves.

Or even full throttle fuss to asleep in 2 secons! We have a 2 year old at home too, so its hard keeping him occupied for so long while I spend an hour or better making multiple attempts at getting the baby to sleep. Leslie, of course you should go in when you feel you have to, but I wonder if you should really try and let him try and get to sleep on his own. He might not get to the inconsolabe part, right? Also, can it start in newborns or later? Rachel, over here witching hour was sometime between 6 pm and pm usually.

He naps about 4 times a day. Each time in his own crib, in a dark and quite room upstairs. He goes to sleep no probs but then aftet sometimes just mins he wakes up. I can see in my video monitor that he is looking around, playing with his hands for minutes before he starts cooing, he is really not sleepy at all and he just wants to play.

But he just seem to love his play time. I have a 4 week old who is a trooper night sleeper. He goes to sleep around 9. Even slept 7 hours a couple of times. It will then take me anywhere from However my dilemma is his daytime sleeps. He only sleeps literally twice in the day and I fear I am keeping him another wake far too long. We seem to have good days and bad days. Good days he will sleep twice hours at a time. Bad days he will sleep twice but only 45 mins. He just seems to scream all day and night when awake and is rarely very chill and happy.

Any advice appreciated :. Kelly, with such a small baby you will NOT ruin night sleep by giving him more naps. Hi Rachel, thanks for all of the work you put into sharing this info with other moms who appreciate it greatly! I have a two and half week old daughter and we are trying to get into a better routine. Any thoughts appreciated. Rachel, Thank you for hosting this site, it is full of helpful and clearly articulated information.

I have a five week old son who eats and sleeps like a champ during the day; late night-early morning, however, is a different story. He usually wakes up around 2am for a feeding which I do in the bedroom, lights off, with as little stimulation as possible.

He will feed for about minutes and still be asleep while I burp him. At this point, I put him back in his bassinet where he lies sleeping for about 15 minutes when he wakes up screaming.

For the next two hours, I pick him up and calm him back to sleep, which happens relatively quickly, but after the 15 minutes in his bassinet, he wakes up again. We do this dance repeatedly until about am when he falls back asleep. During the day and evening, I put him down while he is tired or wake him up if has fallen asleep while feeding or rocking so that he is able to fall asleep on his own.

Between amam, however, he has decided not to use this skill! It sounds to me like this may be his witching hour, is it just unfortunate that it happens when the rest of the world is sleeping? Hayley, how old is baby? Yes we have a one month old and tried going by your schedule. How do you go by putting them down for nap?

What if they cry? Does baby take paci? I was looking at your newborn schedule and the week by week guide. Should we be creating a naptime routine? What do you suggest if they wake up before their next scheduled feed and are hungry?

I think that giving her FULL feeds will help her to get consistent. Also, if baby wakes up and is hungry always feed baby. Thank you, Rachel! One question: When is a newborn no longer a newborn? Give him a few more minutes 5 or 10 at a time and see how he goes :.

My two week old nurses for minutes. Bethany, just let her keep nursing then put her immediately down for a nap. What a good eater :. So when moving from feeding every 2. I find around the 3 month mark or so they will drink more and sleep a bit later. For example, you used to feed at a.

Yes, I would feed a tiny bit at 6 try to upt down and then feed at 7. Hi Rachel m! I am trying to follow your schedule starting last night since my LO has good and bad days because of colic. Everything went well because he fell right to sleep after breastfeeding. He eats, either too much which leads to tummy pain , or too little which makes him wakeful.

Margaret, if he used to sleep well and then stopped that almost always means one of a few things: growth spurt, wonder week, physical discomfort teething, ear ache, etc. Really grateful to have found your site; so much practical wisdom! Similar to another mom above, I have a 3 week old I have been trying to instil good sleep habits with since week 1 but finding it really tricky.

In the evenings he sometimes takes an hour to settle. Is it too early to expect him to do this on his own, or just persevere and hope it improves over the coming weeks? I have a dark room and white noise. He hates a swaddle and fights it, seems to make him frustrated even if I swaddle with his hands near his face. So I leave his arms out completely. He does sleep well at night going hours between feeds. The longest stretch in the first part of the evening.

Any thoughts greatly appreciated! Oh and a question on your newborn schedule, I think I read above that you feed after the evening catnap between 7. Man these newborns sleep so much :. Is he drinking for a long time at each feed?

Also, if you swaddle him and then let him fall asleep how long will it take? You may find that your newborn cries more in the afternoon or early evening than at other times. When your baby is crying, check if they are hungry, tired or uncomfortable. They may need feeding, settling to sleep, a clean nappy , or your baby could be too hot or cold. They could be frightened, needing a cuddle, excited or overtired. As you get to know your baby better, you will start to recognise different types of cries and what they mean.

Responding to your baby's crying is an important part of trust and bonding. Part of your daily routine will also involve regularly changing nappies and washing your baby. It helps to remain flexible with newborns. However, you might choose to start doing simple things with your baby in a similar order when it comes to sleeping, feeding and playing:. You should do what you feel is best for you and your baby, but seek advice if you are not sure.

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Recognize when your baby is tired. Your baby will give you cues that he is tired. Catch these cues early: Yawning. Rubbing eyes.

Looking away from you. Keep baby awake during feedings. Tips to keep your baby awake while eating include: Rub his feet or hands.

Wipe his forehead, neck, and face with a wet wipe. Not to the point that he would be cold, just not cozy. Sit your baby up and talk to him. Burp him frequently. Separate eating from sleeping. Teach your baby how to go to sleep on his own.

Establish routines. Ideas of activities for your sleep routine include: Turn down the lights. Start soft music or white noise. Read him a story. Give him a soothing bath. Rub his arms and legs like in a massage. Sing him a lullaby.